This, to me, is extremely important:
Love does not look, sound or feel like hurt.
It took me 31 years to truly learn and grasp this lesson. This lesson has changed my whole perception on love and my hope is that it will also help many of you shift your own perspective on the myth and lie that love hurts. It doesn't.
If it looks, sounds or feels like I'm hurting myself...I'm also not being loving to myself, either.